I know you probably hear alot of people say music saved their lives and other cliche things along those lines but for me, i think it really has.
I'm not saying all music though.
For example when i'm really depressed i listen to music with alot of raw emotion and feelings which for me is rock, particuarily metal, but that might not be your preference. It doesn't matter though. But i'm just gonna say, don't be close minded, listen to all kinds and you'll find what you really like.
For me i got into alternative music and now i've found Indie Rock and i'm in love. I listen to all music, mostly rock, but occasionally a good pop song (Royal- Lorde) and dubstep, all kinds of stuff.
The point isn't to dance (there's other music for that). I have different songs and genres for emotions and stuff. If i'm sad, listen to sad grunge rock or indie.
In my next post i'm going to post a few of my favorite from all the genres i listen to (i'll ponly put 10 videos okay)
I challenge you guys to listen to them. I'm going to post the lyric video so read them, and see how they ake you feel. They make me feel so much better after everything. It's like having a friend who understands you.
And when you find music you like you can make SO MANY more friends. For example, i got into rock music and even Pierce The Veil, and so many people like them, and alot of people who like the same emotional music as you are going through things, so it makes me feel normal, and not alone.
I seriously reccomend it, it's literally changed my life.
Look out for my next post shortly : )
I'll post pictures after that post of music also: )
Stay happy~
"Dry your eyes and fake that smile like ya won the lottery"
Sunday, December 29, 2013
Saturday, December 28, 2013
Talk To Someone
I've found that talking to people or at least just releasing the pent up thoughts and emotions onto paper or something makes you feel a lot better. I'm not lying. I like to write poems, and sometimes i like to write stories where the characters kind of go through what I am, and i try to make them have a happy ending, what i hope to have.
I understand how it feels to not have anyone to talk to that will understand, and that's why you have to make your own ways to express yourself.
Keeping everything pent up does no good, i'm serious. I do it alot and it just gets too much and i fall apart.
If you're not creative, then create an anonomous twitter or facebook or blog and talk about it. I've done this and people will talk to you, give you advice, and you can help others.
It makes me, personally, feel less alone because i can't see people that are sad but on the internet people are their true selves and talk about things that could be happening to you.
If you have a favorite band or artist that has helped you like for example Demi Lovato, try to get in contact someway and maybe that person will give you hope and advice.
But if your comfortable talking to people, go ahead and do it, a counslor, psychologist, teacher, parent, or friend.
There are people who care about you even if you don't think so. Open up and ask for help and those people will show that they care.
Even if you feel like you don't have someone that cares, make friends, online, in person, anything, talking to other human beings seriously helps.
I used to be really shy, but i came into high school, with new people and a new town, and decided to be more open and outgoing and although the change is slowly happening, it's a big step up from what i used to be. Want to know how? One step at a time.
Make a few friends, then start to talk more, then make more and more friends, and then speak more and speak in class and be friendly and you'll feel better, i'm serious.
But be careful with teenagers in high school, with friends and popularity comes haters and rumors, be careful, but also don't listen to what others think.
I have faith in everyone, in you. So just put yourself out there, be yourself, and someone will fall in love with you, but friends don't just walk into your life, you have to look for them too sometimes, for all you know their dumb ass might be lost!
Stay happy, positive, and contact me if you need some help okay?
If you guys leave your URL's and @TWITTER names, i'll follow you on TUMBLR or TWITTER.
Goodbye and happy New Year!
New year new you!
I understand how it feels to not have anyone to talk to that will understand, and that's why you have to make your own ways to express yourself.
Keeping everything pent up does no good, i'm serious. I do it alot and it just gets too much and i fall apart.
If you're not creative, then create an anonomous twitter or facebook or blog and talk about it. I've done this and people will talk to you, give you advice, and you can help others.
It makes me, personally, feel less alone because i can't see people that are sad but on the internet people are their true selves and talk about things that could be happening to you.
If you have a favorite band or artist that has helped you like for example Demi Lovato, try to get in contact someway and maybe that person will give you hope and advice.
But if your comfortable talking to people, go ahead and do it, a counslor, psychologist, teacher, parent, or friend.
There are people who care about you even if you don't think so. Open up and ask for help and those people will show that they care.
Even if you feel like you don't have someone that cares, make friends, online, in person, anything, talking to other human beings seriously helps.
I used to be really shy, but i came into high school, with new people and a new town, and decided to be more open and outgoing and although the change is slowly happening, it's a big step up from what i used to be. Want to know how? One step at a time.
Make a few friends, then start to talk more, then make more and more friends, and then speak more and speak in class and be friendly and you'll feel better, i'm serious.
But be careful with teenagers in high school, with friends and popularity comes haters and rumors, be careful, but also don't listen to what others think.
I have faith in everyone, in you. So just put yourself out there, be yourself, and someone will fall in love with you, but friends don't just walk into your life, you have to look for them too sometimes, for all you know their dumb ass might be lost!
Stay happy, positive, and contact me if you need some help okay?
If you guys leave your URL's and @TWITTER names, i'll follow you on TUMBLR or TWITTER.
Goodbye and happy New Year!
New year new you!
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